De-Stereotyping the Image?
I followed up the aftermath of murdering Marwa el-Sherbini since one week ago in Germany either online or offline, and have to describe how horrified I am by the various reactions that sparked out regarding this event. Hence I have twittered that “I am afraid of abusing Marwa’s case: killer should be punished according to the law + working on de-stereotyping!”

De-Stereotyping the Image
It seems what I fear might come true unless we wake up somehow. In my previous post, I was wondering about the silence of the worldwide mass-media regarding this event and explained my thoughts on why this case was ignored at the beginning.
Consequently, I played the what if game in order to raise the awareness about the case but unfortunately I found some reports, blogs and threads referred to my blog entry and criticizing this in a way that shows how they even missed the meaning of the title which aimed to reflect the murderer’s state of mind; something that makes me wonder whether people read the whole post to got the meaning?!
Stereotyping + Selectivity = Exaggerating
This equation summarizes the situation as unfortunately, majority of people behave in an attitude of selectivity where they highlight what matches with their prefabricate opinion. Hereby I found two extreme sides of the case:
- Side One: those who minimized the whole case to be Martyr of Hijab only, calling for boycotting Germans, and chanted anti-German chants during the funeral;
- Side Two: those who see nothing in the what if game but Muslims outrage for the brave Muslim lady and wonders where they in other cases of Non-Muslims.
You shall notice that I did not portray Muslims vs. Non-Muslims for the two previously mentioned sides because you will find this attitude from both teams alike. Hereby, I do not like exaggerating and do believe it is a sign of non-healthy conditions that prevail in whatever society.
This case is described in the media a lone wolf case but did not this also apply on the Muslim extremists? They do not represent Islam in general same as others do not represent the West in general but here – by the way – I am wondering about the “Srebrenica Genocide” between 1992 and 1995 in Bosnia at the heart of Europe in the 20th century. Simply, you see how it is an easy shortcut to take and talk about through this mentalities; however who spend the time to think and debate about how to reach a better understanding based on the common grounds in human nature! Surprisingly, this is the main theme of my previous post for who takes time to read out of the box and this is what Marwa’s case should elaborate.
Ironically, this is what I understand from Islam as accepting the others not neglecting them because your faith is something up to you to choose and it is between your and the Creator. Consequently, the citizens of any society cannot be neglected or stereotyped just because they are Muslims! For that matter, neither debating about whether she is a martyr of Hijab nor about whether Muslims hate the West or not shall solve any ground problems that we are facing.
Indulgence: for Who by Who?
On contrary, I do believe that we need to take serious steps to bridge people together on a solid base of respecting each other; so the fear of Muslims just because they are so, known as Islamophobia, is equivalent – for me and any body who understand the core of Islam – to fear of non-Muslims and that ridiculous portraying from one side against another is non-healthy, stupid and narrow-minded actions.
This reminds me with the 44th POTUS‘s speech in Cairo on the 4th June 2009, where I wonder for the third time: is this a work of the elite and intellectuals only? If so then what about the public? Let us face it; majority is stereotyped and this returns to my wondering about de-stereotyping the image?
HATS OFF for Marwa and Elwi
Nevertheless, I cannot end this post without saying hats off to Marwa and Elwi with a especial one for Marwa as she was brave enough to stand against someone who try to discriminate her and her identity by following the legal way via court; she was saving her dignity as a Muslim Woman and the place that witnessed her killing should be the same place that witnesses applying justice against her slayer. God she and her unborn baby have been killed in front of her 3 years old son, husband and people.
That is what we need to see in action besides de-stereotyping the images of racism. Moreover, no body can offer an indulgence to other yet we can offer understanding, but who is brave enough to do so other than offering a bill of indictment? This is the hard question you should ask yourself at first place!
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July 10th, 2009 @ 17:16
Great and readable post – well said – stand up and keep up the good work.
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July 11th, 2009 @ 08:15
We all don’t like racism but why we are not successful in emitting this flaw from earth. Anyway nice and remarkable post.
July 11th, 2009 @ 23:48
I am shocked! I haven’t even heard of this before today. I did a quick search but could not find what happened to the murderer who took the life of this poor woman. I understand he also stabbed the woman’s husband three times before they shot the husband?
I’m sorry but the obvious solution is that man should be tried swiftly and condemned. I do not understand why the German courts are not reacting more swiftly.
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July 14th, 2009 @ 11:10
Sire, no news about the killer yet since DA in Germany banned publishing about this in their local newspapers. And yes, her husband was both stabbed by the killer while defending her, and from a German policeman who shoot him at his leg. I also wish to see justice as soon as possible.
July 13th, 2009 @ 08:27
Hicham, you are right in saying that Marwa was a brave woman to stand up for her rights – shame it had to end so tragically for her and her family.
I would just qualify your ‘lone wolf’ comment to say that the murderer Axel was more than a lone wolf; he represented the attitudes of an extreme but small minority of Europeans – just as Islamists reflect the attitudes of a small but extreme minority of Muslims.
In my own article on the murder, I tried to be balanced and put the events in context. http://chronikler.com/middle-east/egypt/hijab-and-dagger/
July 13th, 2009 @ 20:55
Khaled, you hit the nail on the head by what you said. Also I enjoyed your article as I already commented over your post. Thanks so much for stopping by here.
July 14th, 2009 @ 04:47
Very well written post. Made me think!
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July 14th, 2009 @ 15:53
Nothing is sadder that this great divide of misunderstanding that continues to grow wider and wider between Muslims and non-Muslims. The media inflames this misunderstanding by constantly reporting isolated incidents of brutality and hatred and totally ignoring the efforts of people of all faiths and religions to live together in harmony and peace. It is our responsibility as individuals to reject this stereotyping and seek the truth.
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July 15th, 2009 @ 19:05
Insightful comment, Nothing profound. Media is a tool that either help positively or negatively so it’a all about being responsible in dealing with any problem generally and this misunderstanding problem particulary. Consequently, individuals, NPO/NGO are told to be responsible by using their minds and not to buy everything presented in the media.
July 15th, 2009 @ 09:03
Greetings, Hicham. I found your blog via Mona Eltahawy’s. I just wanted to say I think this was an extremely well written and fair sequence of posts. Glad I clicked your name and found my way here
July 15th, 2009 @ 09:06
Oops! My bad…. it was on Rebellious Arab Girl (the other Mona!) that I saw you comment!
July 15th, 2009 @ 18:56
Greetings Craig. Thanks so much for stopping by here and for your comment.
Hey, no problem that you missed from where you find me either it’s Mona Eltahawy’s or Mona Rebellious Arab Girl since you already find this blog
OK seriously, I am glad that we’ve two famous “Mona” in the blogsphere and maybe we have more but didn’t figure out yet
July 15th, 2009 @ 12:30
The media will only cover what they can manipulate. This article is very well written and I hope you can get someone to escalate it elsewhere. Religion as always is a complex matter.
July 15th, 2009 @ 18:56
Very well said, Ventrilo about manipulation. Thanks for stopping by here.
July 16th, 2009 @ 21:44
The contrary of a stereotype is a living face. I have seen yours, Hicham, I liked it and am glad to know one more dedicated young Muslim by name. I enjoy the internet because it brings people together. Lots of love to Egypt, home of one of the great soccer teams of the world!
July 18th, 2009 @ 03:17
I’ve seen you too, Christian. I also enjoy how internet gives us the opportunity to meet new people arround the world and my greetings to a very respectable German nation too! Thanks for stopping by!
July 28th, 2009 @ 15:30
I was a bit irritated with the extremism this case brought out. Like where was this same outcry for the Chinese Uyghur? And dubbing her the Hijab Martyr, I felt was belittling her and was slightly disrespectful. Yes she was a brave and strong woman for standing up for her beliefs in the correct and legal manner. Boycotting Germany is definitely not the answer, instead we should be opening a channel for communication, showing the world what Islam really means and working against Islamophobia and other forms of racism
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July 29th, 2009 @ 16:15
Egyptian jessyz
, I understand your point of view and agree with it. I actually felt horrified with this kind of speech which os equal to what we -muslims- accuse the west with. This trend is so selfish and I ellaborated this in a following post entitled ‘Tunnel Vision‘.
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